Becoming a Stager doesn’t mean you are a pushover.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi81sC-_gy1TrlC2qsDFpQtfYBrsNcAmqD7jSPNg353W0QO0m3QAdxLQyU5p1tk-CBlXm8WGs03G7pIQdYNJFNKG3hRXEIu7gzRcjYW0Y1Co79rLn_-aIBWtAIxBu1uPn9LLPwpbehnoZR1/s1600/download+%25282%2529.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="118" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi81sC-_gy1TrlC2qsDFpQtfYBrsNcAmqD7jSPNg353W0QO0m3QAdxLQyU5p1tk-CBlXm8WGs03G7pIQdYNJFNKG3hRXEIu7gzRcjYW0Y1Co79rLn_-aIBWtAIxBu1uPn9LLPwpbehnoZR1/s320/download+%25282%2529.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><br /><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">Becoming a Stager doesn’t mean you are a pushover. In fact, many times the loving-kindness and compassionate thing to do is to set boundaries.<br /><br /> <br /><br />As with everything we talk about here in our Stagers hangouts, the key is balance. Too many boundaries and you close off; no boundaries and we lose ourselves.<br /><br /> <br /><br />As Stagers continues to grow, time is getting slimmer and slimmer. And more people are asking for Stagers hangout time.<br /><br /> <br /><br /> We have to learn the valuable lessons: of compassion and boundaries of loving-kindness.<br /><br /> <br /><br />One of the most challenging lessons we have had to learn was the lesson of giving TOO MUCH away to others.  We have become so focused on this other person’s recovery and ideas that we were ignoring our own recovery.<br /><br /> <br /><br />As a result, resentment built up within us and we then projected it onto other stagers. we became pissed off once more. we thought at the time we were pissed off because other stagers were not seeing us, but the truth is, we were not seeing ourselves for who we really were or what we really wanted. So, it was through lack of contact with our child within that our lives became once more out of balance.<br /><br /> <br /><br />This is a painful and crippling lesson for us to learn emotionally, physically,  and financially. We once more become bankrupt across the board. It was ironic because we were promoting a message of compassion, but we didn’t have any for ourselves.<br /><br />Of course it is in giving that we receive, but that starts with ourselves.<br /><br /> <br /><br />If we are not full, we will have nothing to give away. We learned that boundaries are very important. We learned that we had to be in contact with our intuitive voice before we could be fulfilling in any relationship .<br /><br /> <br /><br />We learned this lesson through pain, but it has since become a path of joy. Our ego hates the transformation from that dark place of the hidden child within to our life now, but each time my ego got mad, my child within celebrated its pathway to freedom.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Now, we are living our recovery. which we started through contacting our child within, then grew from giving that loving-kindness away and is sustained by a balance of giving to ourselves and to others. We have never experienced more consistent joy in our lives as a result of those painful childhood years and we would do them all over again if we had to, because on the other side, life becomes beautiful and sweet.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Are you living your life for others and abandoning your child within in the process?</span></span><div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/06/the-key-to-loving-kindness-practice-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; 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display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://socialpsychologists.blogspot.com/2015/07/we-learn-to-recognise-our-child-within.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We learn to recognise our child within, the function of loving-kindness is to soothe and relieve our difficult emotions.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/09/the-essence-of-loving-kindness-is-being.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/363488018_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/09/the-essence-of-loving-kindness-is-being.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">The essence of loving kindness is being able to offer happiness.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/06/we-live-in-world-today-that-lacks.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/348786016_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/06/we-live-in-world-today-that-lacks.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We live in a world today that lacks loving-kindness and compassion for our fellow man and woman.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-are-child-within-beings-having-human.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/noimg_37_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://intuitivevoices.blogspot.com/2015/05/we-are-child-within-beings-having-human.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We are the child within beings having a human experience. And this is our truth.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/06/loving-kindness-is-wish-that-all-may.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/346417117_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagesevents.blogspot.com/2015/06/loving-kindness-is-wish-that-all-may.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">loving-kindness is the wish that all may enjoy happiness.</a></li> </ul> </div>

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Our Recovery is going to fill a large part of your life

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgDOqtbdGgn9nKUnQQ1miondX4kHKd0ffRfrCevjgGu3s3waeDAzhYwS1eCAS-wfxFgWTSWgCJZdVzoQeD2LZ_3BhpLEJGjorYbWzMiSgY_WqEJ3Fi3Bzt2IMTmYmO_8BYn1bZNnuR8rWu/s1600/1-socialmotion.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="104" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhgDOqtbdGgn9nKUnQQ1miondX4kHKd0ffRfrCevjgGu3s3waeDAzhYwS1eCAS-wfxFgWTSWgCJZdVzoQeD2LZ_3BhpLEJGjorYbWzMiSgY_WqEJ3Fi3Bzt2IMTmYmO_8BYn1bZNnuR8rWu/s320/1-socialmotion.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Our Recovery is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great recovery work. And the only way to do great recovery work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.</span>

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We were all born powerful beings. Let us step into that power today and declare our worthiness as already existing.

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2pHaLMcebrK9YPOk0FpGM7VKhC9kVoPmMUAx5fIgPQUQE-ZAp7ZJkcTlS4gvJfX2d3jyjaHT1I-IXmT9sKTfzVKWT3OczEGj14l374zfHypUA8uRmDM7qHlNDIXoLHnuMQU7Ccm4xFoxL/s1600/1-proxp.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="129" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2pHaLMcebrK9YPOk0FpGM7VKhC9kVoPmMUAx5fIgPQUQE-ZAp7ZJkcTlS4gvJfX2d3jyjaHT1I-IXmT9sKTfzVKWT3OczEGj14l374zfHypUA8uRmDM7qHlNDIXoLHnuMQU7Ccm4xFoxL/s320/1-proxp.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><br /><br /><span style="font-size: large;">We must remember our child within. Today we are stronger than our circumstances.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We can influence and transcend our environment.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Our natural ability to reason plus the intuition we were born with are invaluable tools that can help to bring us out of undesired circumstances.<br /><br /> <br /><br />One major issue that holds a lot of Stagers back is the belief that they are not worthy to receive something better. Before anything of greater value can come into our lives we must begin to believe we are worthy of people, circumstances and a life that has greater value. If we are keeping ourselves stuck in an abusive or toxic relationship, what will begin to change that is our thoughts and belief that we are worthy of happiness within our relationships.<br /><br /> <br /><br />If we lack the wisdom of our intuitive voice, the belief that we are more valuable is core to changing our beliefs and situation. Once we have the thoughts and beliefs of our child within, then we can begin to take action.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Action from this place may look like breaking up with persons we are in a toxic relationship with. It may look like continuing our education to learn greater skills that will set us free financially.<br /><br /> <br /><br />Action might also look like moving, either to a new part of town, or to a whole new city or country.<br /><br /> <br /><br />It is in our thoughts of unworthiness that we create a life that is out of harmony with what we truly desire. Slowly, day by day, as we connect to our child within our thoughts turn from unworthiness of our past history to worthiness of a freed child, from doubting our dreams and intuition to believing, we will begin to take subtle different actions. These actions will eventually add up one at a time until we don't even recognize our life anymore.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We all want something to change in our lives. We want to grow into recovery.<br /><br /> <br /><br />We want to evolve. We want to understand and be understood.<br /><br />We must begin by acknowledging our child within. We are not worthy because of a degree, an honor or a grade. We are all equally worthy to live this kind of elevated lifestyle because we are all understood children. We must each realise that we are already were born worthy and then begin to take action from this place of already being worthy, while at the same time honour the worthiness of everyone else child within we meet.<br /><br /> <br />We were all born powerful beings. Let us step into that power today and declare our worthiness as already existing.</span></span><div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-child-within-thats-is-interior.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/340768502_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stageforum.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-child-within-thats-is-interior.html" style="background-image: none; 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We were all born powerful beings. Let us step into that power today and declare our worthiness as already existing.

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