Society denies all but the most intense traumas and minimises the rest

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRDYSC6sdw1_1oRYkdYn4jV8T2sU8ayXDR2FNzpyokHI3-kvYCas3n7jN2JmYHT5Bl_yX6yj7fmkrY85EnEp3_w_FWmuB8ElUDzltCBdG-ehuu3urdltVpjTg-hp9a3M_MPYQL3OX7MZTI/s1600/Google+hang.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRDYSC6sdw1_1oRYkdYn4jV8T2sU8ayXDR2FNzpyokHI3-kvYCas3n7jN2JmYHT5Bl_yX6yj7fmkrY85EnEp3_w_FWmuB8ElUDzltCBdG-ehuu3urdltVpjTg-hp9a3M_MPYQL3OX7MZTI/s1600/Google+hang.jpeg" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Society denies all but the most intense traumas and minimises the rest; most of us do the same with our dreams. In this vein, we believe we had a happy, non-traumatic childhood; these are the same of us who wish us “sweet dreams” at night.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Both involve the repetition compulsion. We compulsively replicate our unresolved traumas in an attempt to heal them. Likewise, we often have repeats of the same dreams – or dream themes.<br /><br />Both rupture the borders of our personality. Traumatic experiences force their way through the psyche like a nail through a board, whereas dreams are the psyche’s attempt to pull the nail out of the board.<br /><br />As such, both involve the essence of our life’s process. Traumatic experiences destroy life; dreams hope to reclaim it.<br /></span>Related articles<br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagescoursestudies.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-will-feel-as-if-we-are-actually.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336853596_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagescoursestudies.blogspot.com/2015/04/we-will-feel-as-if-we-are-actually.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">we will FEEL as if we are actually taking care of ourselves.</a></li> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/we-then-always-have-to-involve-our.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/336854368_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://stagescommunity.blogspot.com/2015/03/we-then-always-have-to-involve-our.html" style="background-image: none; display: block; height: 83px; line-height: 12pt; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">We then always have to involve our primary repetition compulsion. 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Society denies all but the most intense traumas and minimises the rest

Society denies all but the most intense traumas and minimises the rest; most of us do the same with our dreams. In this vein, we beli...

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